Spotting Time wasters

Don't know if any of y'all are familiar with site called SAAFE (Support and Advice for Escorts) or not, but I thought I'd share it anyways.

I really liked the "How to spot Time wasters" page... so I just wanted to "re-post" part of it here as well.

Spotting Time wasters

There are many reasons for people to waste your time and they should not be confused with genuine cancellations which, whilst a bit of a pain, are inevitable as the sort of clients you attract may well have jobs that take them away to a different area at the last minute. People do become ill and of course most of us at some point in our life have conflicting commitments which may mean we can't keep to an appointment time.
The genuine ones will call and let you know and most likely will rebook but for those who are not genuine and are pure time wasters, you need to keep a note of their details so you don't keep falling for it. It's up to you how many chances you give someone who continually calls to cancel a booking; maybe you could ask for a non-returnable deposit of it happens a lot or you could just refuse to take the booking. Again, as an independent, its up to you.
Listed below are some of the views of working girls on time wasters. Of course genuine people may use them too so don't be taking it as gospel but do use it as little voice on your shoulder when assessing what is genuine and what is not.

Time wasters are...

My censored reply

I replied to some asshole on myredbook, but ended up being censored. I had a feeling this was going to happen, so luckily I took a screen shot of my response.

I felt it was important for the providers on redbook to know what this guy's real agenda is, so that they will know to stay away from him.   

This guy posted about how good he is at smearing girls names and how everyone should stop giving good reviews because it drives the price up. 

***So yeah, ladies beware of LovChoc459***

Just click on the pic to make it larger.

The Real Monsters

After watching a few documentaries on some serial killers the other day, I got to thinking about a few things that really inspired me to write this article.
 

You know something that I have always told my kids over and over again, is that "monsters" are real. But the real monsters aren't going to be some kind of creature under your bed, a possessed Chucky doll, flesh eating zombies, or Freddy Krueger out to kill you from your dreams. 

No, I make sure to constantly remind them that monsters like the ones from those kind of movies are not the real threat. The "REAL MONSTERS" don't look anything like those scary boogie men, but even worse, they look just like you and me. Which really makes that even more scary when you stop to look at it. Because if they really did look like that, at least you'd know what they were right away. But the "real monsters" look just like any normal person. They blend in with the rest of us. And some of the most absolutely diabolical ones hold down good jobs, go to church, and raise families. (Well at least most of them. I am aware that there are deranged psychos out there, like Richard Chase for example. But at least with those guys, you can see them for what they are right off the bat.)

Just take a look at some of the "real life monsters" who targeted sex workers. 

The Craigslist Killer: Seven Days of Rage

Verify him

I don't know if you gals have ever heard of this site verifyhim.com but if you haven't joined yet, you are missing out on a great resource. Basically it's a black list for not just dangerous clients but ass holes and time wasters too. There search database returns all sorts of useful info on the guy you want to find out more about.


 
There's also a wealth of helpful tips and tricks to help keep you smart and safe.

• Basic Screening Tips
• About Verifyhim.com's subscription

You get your own profile and blog and can add other members to your friends list. You can also live chat with other gals online (kinda like on facebook).

It's a great networking tool as well as a beautiful support system of other lovely ladies who can relate to all the same things from working in this business.